The Questions That Hold Us Back

 In my darkest days, before I got the help I needed for my post-natal depression, I was living in complete and utter fear. I knew there was something very wrong. I knew I needed help, but I was terrified of saying it out loud.There were questions holding me back:

• What if people judge me?
• What if I need to go on medication?
• What if they make me stay in a psychiatric hospital?
• What if they tell me I'm unfit to care for our kids?
• What if Sparky doesn't love me anymore?

It was too much. Living in fear was preferable to facing the unknown. 

But by the grace of God, somewhere, I found the strength to whisper...

"Help me."

And that was the first step.

 Looking back, I can see that all I needed to worry about was that first step. To look at my feet and shuffle one foot forward. Once I had done that, I was on my way.Then, and only then, could I concern myself with taking the second step.After that, I could think about the third. The decision to live a simple life started out in a similar way. I was filled with fear, anxiety and doubt.There were questions holding me back:

• What if I offend people by giving away what they've given us?
• What if I fail?
• What if I'm not strong enough to finish what I start?
• How do I find the time to simplify, when I'm so busy already?
• What if my friends think I'm weird?
• What will my family say?
• What if my husband doesn't want to do this?
• What if people think we're depriving our kids by not giving them every thing they want?

 Your journey to live a simpler life is the same. Hopefully without the medication and therapy.I know so many of you are terrified, you don't know where to begin, you are worried you will offend those you love, or face ridicule or opposition. I know these things because you tell me.Every day I receive emails from beautiful readers like you, telling me their stories. Sharing their fears. Asking for help.These people are taking the first step.Today I'm asking you to do the same. In the comments below, tell me what your fear is. Share your story. Ask for helpTake that first step. Let us know the questions that are holding you back.